Erotica Across America

saa12232013(12/23/13)  What is erotica?  Is it art?  Is it porn?  Is it neither or both?  Some say the answer lies with the intent of the subject while others opine that it’s whatever the social majority says it is.  If you randomly ask any 10 people, you’ll likely get about 47 different answers.  Defining erotica is very much like firing a floppy rubber band at an ever-zipping target.  The definition not only fluctuates depending on where you happen to be at any given moment, but also when that given moment happens to be.  You would think that something that’s been around since cave dwelling days might be more solidly classified by now, but if anything it’s become fuzzier in the modern era.  Perhaps that’s not such a bad thing though.

Paraphrasing Supreme Court Associate Justice Potter Stewart’s famous 1964 statement supporting the Court’s overturning an Ohio obscenity conviction, “…I shall not today attempt further to define the kinds of material I understand to be embraced, but I know it when I see it.”  It’s one of those rare, elegant occurrences where intentional ambiguity and sharp precision collide in a way that’s just perfect.  By leaving the “erotica bin” deliberately vague, much more freedom is preserved when it comes to what’s Constitutionally protected as free expression.  That said, the political and legal skirmishes hardly ended there.

In 1973, the Supreme Court ruled in a California obscenity case, resulting in a three step assessment to resolve whether a written or visual artwork was Constitutionally protected or classified as “obscene” and therefore not covered by the First Amendment.  The so-called “Miller Test” offered these guidelines:

1.  Whether the average person, applying contemporary community standards would find that the work, taken as a whole, appeals to the prurient interest;

2.  Whether the work depicts or describes, in a patently offensive way, sexual conduct specifically defined by the applicable state law, and;

3.  Whether the work, taken as a whole, lacks serious literary, artistic, political, or scientific value.

While many states still have laws that would apply in defining obscene material, the issue of “contemporary community standards” is both vague and constantly changing.  As they’ve essentially become more liberal over the years, particularly with new and expanded forms of media, the Miller Test has increasingly helped to protect many forms of erotica when challenged in the justice system.  Accordingly, the uberstuffy types had to up their creativity when instigating clashes, but not necessarily achieving the intended results.

In 1989, for example, Robert Mapplethorpe‘s art exhibit, publicly funded by the National Endowment for the Arts, came under attack by conservative special interest groups under the guise of opposing public subsidies for art that they deemed obscene.  Applying powerful lobbying tactics, they managed to influence withdrawal of support for Mapplethorpe’s show along with a subsequent obscenity prosecution of a venue that proceeded with the exhibition.  While their strategy initially appeared to succeed, it ultimately backfired massively when the venue (the Contemporary Arts Center in Cincinnati, Ohio) was found not guilty in the resulting jury trial and the entire escapade elevated Mapplethorpe to celebrity status, significantly increasing both the exposure and monetary value of his art.

These days, erotic artists are thriving as the mainstream has widened its view of what is considered–and accepted–as art.  This isn’t to say that opposition camps have dissolved completely, of course, but it does seem that a greater degree of tolerance is now in the air.  It’s a positive trend that not only solidifies freedom, but ironically owes itself to the lack of a clear, universal definition.

However, you do know it when you see it.

Sex Across America Salutes: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

(12/9/13)  Last week, we featured a piece on Kink Aware Professionals, a directory of medical, legal, therapeutic and administrative professionals who understand and support various sexuality concerns and lifestyle choices.  In that article, we noted that this program is managed by the non-profit National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) and, accordingly, we thought it important to expand our coverage to include a little more about this unique organization.

Founded in 1997, the NCSF’s purpose is straightforward:  They champion sexual freedom and privacy rights.  They accomplish this through direct action as well as by affiliating with social organizations, academic institutions, businesses and synergistic political action groups such as the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU).  Through their activism, advocacy and educational programs, they seek to improve the political landscape as it relates to equal rights for consenting adults who enjoy alternative forms of sexuality, particularly in kink/fetish, swingers and polyamory communities.

Unlike other activist organizations who only respond to crisis situations as they arise, the NCSF has developed an ongoing, proactive platform geared towards educating communities, legal systems and media outlets at local, state and national levels.  For example, the group recently sponsored an interactive event at the Leather Archives and Museum in Chicago featuring legal experts (including a sitting District Court judge) that provided an overview of issues related to federal and state laws used to prosecute consensual sexual activity among adults.  Through activities like this, they help to prevent potentially adverse situations through better understanding of facts instead of knee-jerk reactions to common myths or biased groupthink.  By building a stronger knowledge foundation along with well-informed public opinion on a widespread basis, the organization has successfully shifted both the response to and coverage of several high-profile cases regarding sexual freedom in recent years and diluted the efforts of many organizations who seek to restrict adult rights.

In short, the NCSF is an organization that’s not nearly as well known as it should be, but has had–and is having–a solid impact when it counts.  If you would like to get a better idea of some of their ongoing projects, we recommend a visit to their official website along with a quick stop at their YouTube channel where you’ll find some brief videos.  Additionally, to help increase the support and attention they both need and deserve, please take a moment to share this article throughout your circles.

Sex Across America Salutes: Kink Aware Professionals

(12/2/13)  We’ve come a long way in bringing about more candid and open conversations regarding sexuality, but the unintended irony is that we might actually have too much of a good thing in some cases.  While the quantity and quality of available resources is significantly better today than it was just a few years ago, we’re now facing a period of information overload.  This is to say that there are so many resources that it’s difficult at times to distinguish between what might be useful or not.  When you don’t really know where to start, fear being judged or are concerned about misinformation, where should you turn?

One place to start is Kink Aware Professionals (KAP), a non-profit directory of medical, legal, therapeutic and administrative professionals who understand and support various sexuality concerns and lifestyle choices.  Conceptualized by psychotherapist Guy Baldwin in the mid-80s and further developed by sex educator-activist Race Bannon, KAP has been managed by the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) since about 2005 and focuses on professional service providers in the U.S. and Canada with limited listings for other areas.  Additionally, some providers offer their services either electronically or by telephone.  Professionals appearing in KAP listings volunteer to be listed and are not routinely vetted by the NSCF, however, most are verifiably credentialed in their particular field of expertise and are usually classified by experience level.

Although the name implies that the services covered are limited to professionals with an understanding of kink-oriented lifestyles only, KAP is actually much more diverse in scope, offering a wide array of resources to help regardless of particular interest.  The basic categories offered include:

  • Accounting and finance professionals
  • Counselors and therapists
  • Medical doctors
  • Health and wellness practitioners
  • Lawyers
  • Businesses that provide service primarily by internet
  • Life coaches
  • Miscellaneous (e.g., mediators, investigators, etc.)
  • Psychologists
  • Spiritual advisors and wedding officiators
  • Web design and information technologies

The bottom line is to be of service to people wanting to find professionals who are sensitive to their specific needs regardless of their sexuality–and to not have their sexuality factor in prejudicially.  KAP has been meeting that goal head on for over 25 years and, thanks to the growing crop of professionals adding their voices, is getting even better.  It’s certainly one solid method for cutting through the cacophony these days when a professional ally is needed.

If you have had experience with a service provider listed in KAP, we’d like to hear from you.  Additionally, if you know someone who might be able to benefit from this program, please pass this article along to them (a ‘share’ button is below for your convenience).

Sex Across America Salutes: America’s Veterans

(11/11/13)  It’s been said millions of times:  Freedom isn’t free.  No one knows this better than a veteran of America’s armed forces.  So, before anything else, we want to take a moment to say thank you on this Veterans Day to everyone who has worn our nation’s uniforms for both their service and their sacrifice–and we ask anyone reading this to do the same.

With that said, while those who served have done much to protect and defend us, we have to ask:  Who is protecting and defending them?  As we track various sex trends impacting Americans, we are disturbed to find that among many serious issues facing today’s service members is the growing problem of sexual assault–and it’s a concern that’s well justified.  Earlier this year, the Department of Defense (DoD) published a study that found a significant year-over-year increase in sexual assault cases (26,000 in 2012 vs. 19,000 the year before–a 37% jump).  With these kinds of staggering numbers obviously trending in the wrong direction, it’s pretty clear that the chain of command needs immediate help–and you would think they’d welcome it when offered.  Apparently, not so much.

U.S. Senator Kirsten Gillibrand of New York is currently pushing legislation for the 2014 defense bill (scheduled for debate in less than two weeks) that establishes a simple, independent system for handling and prosecuting military sexual assault complaints.  The DoD is vehemently opposing it on the grounds that they believe military prosecutions should remain within military chain of command.  Ordinarily, given the unique nature of military life and its specific system for maintaining order and discipline (known as the Uniformed Code of Military Justice), this might make sense, but the disaster in progress obviously demands otherwise.  It’s evident that the system in place has not only failed, it’s growing worse.  Even top military commanders recognize this.  After the study noted above was released, the Army’s Chief of Staff, General Raymond Odierno, commented,

“Our Army is based on a bedrock of trust – the trust between Soldiers and leaders that we will take care of each other.  Recent incidents of sexual assault and sexual harassment demonstrate that we have violated that trust.  In fact, these acts violate everything our Army stands for.  They are contrary to our Army Values and they must not be tolerated.”

Indeed, they must not be tolerated, but if the existing system permitted these admitted violations of trust, then it’s clearly time for change.  It may not be popular to break with a traditional tenet of military life, but popular tradition is a poor excuse for maintaining a failed course.  Responsible leadership recognizes when help is needed–and embraces it enthusiastically when offered.  By all means, the chain of command should retain responsibility for improving preventive measures, but when those measures fail, GIs need to have a safe place to go with their complaints that exists outside the chain that failed them.  It’s as simple as that. 

The bottom line:  Senator Gillibrand is offering a reasonable approach to addressing the rising problem of sexual assault in the military.  Implementing it hinges on the widespread support of the Senate when it votes on the National Defense Authorization in just a few days.  You can have a direct impact on helping to fix this serious issue by voicing your position on the matter to your state’s Senators (here is the Senate’s email directory) and by sharing this article widely throughout your social circles so that others may consider doing the same.  (The “share” button is just below the article.)  Please honor those who serve on this Veterans Day by taking just a few moments to help protect and defend them.

For everyone who wears America’s military uniform, the day eventually comes where it’s put away for the last time.  On that day, the Veteran should be able to look back on their time of service fondly, with satisfaction and with tremendous pride–not with shame, despair or sorrow.  This Veterans Day, please take a moment to do something special that not only addresses a serious problem now, but also positively impacts countless future Vets to come.